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#BlogPost: She seduced me by Abimbola Abiola (@AbimbolaAbiolaa)

#BlogPost: She seduced me by Abimbola Abiola (@AbimbolaAbiolaa)
January 4, 2016 STER

I came across these cases from Akwa Ibom and Lagos, about a 60, 29 and 20 years’ old men who were arrested for rape and of how they told law enforcers that they were lured by their alleged victim’s sexy behaviour.

So often when people hear this type of defense, some of them will rant about how girls are too sexy these days and therefore bringing sexual assaults upon themselves. This way of thinking is dead wrong. We’ve always said it, no girl or woman no matter how sexy she is or how she dresses brings sexual assaults upon herself.

This mindboggling cases should also remind us that this type of excuse is just that, an excuse and not a cause.

Their alleged victims were 8, 9 and 11 years old! Imagine.

If this doesn’t shock you into letting go of the ‘she seduced me’ myth, then maybe hearing that this excuse was used by a convicted child abuser when the victim (his daughter) was only three years old, will have you seeing this lie for what it is.

A rationalization for a heinous crime.

So the question then becomes: will you support the rationalization of rapists or will you stand against these rationalizations and put the blame for rape where it belongs-on the rapist?

Share your thoughts via @StandtoEndRape on Twitter. Thanks for reading.

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